- Define a “personal relationship with Jesus” by whether you go to church or engage in religious rituals.
- Adopt the following statement as true, “The primary goal in my Christian life is to be happy.”
- Teach your children by example that being a Christian does not mean that your family changes priorities, especially concerning lifestyle, sacrifice, and time commitments.
- Live with a strong belief in relative truth. That is to say, truth that is defined differently depending on the circumstances.
If you follow the previous tenants, others will never accuse you of being a religious fanatic, bible thumper, fundamentalist, or closed-minded and dangerous zealot. You will also be considered “progressive” and pitied by the society. Your children will benefit too … they will never be engaged enough in Christianity to be considered weird and will never be accused of bigotry or racism by the radical elements of society.
In other words, it’s a “win/win” for you and your family. Everyone will like you, you will not be forced by biblical thinking to really do anything, you can still pray to God without being convicted to change, and people will think you’re a really nice person, though misguided and simple-minded.
Most reading this would never make the willful choice to do these things. Few would take them seriously and would reject them outright. The problem is “the proof is in the pudding” or to put it biblically “we reap whatever seed we sow.” George Barna provides the following stats that tell what most American Christians have really believed over the past 3 generations because of the “fruit” now being produced in 18-25 year old young adults. Eighty-six percent of the young adults polled said they were “committed Christians” with 34% describing themselves as born again. Seven out of 10 were engaged in some church related activity in a typical week. In other words, these are the young adults who are the next generation to lead the church.
Here is what the research found:
- Two out of three (65%) said the Devil is not a living being but is “a symbol of evil.”
- Three out of five teens (61%) agreed with the statement, “If a person is generally good, or does enough good things for others, they will earn a place in heaven.”
- More than half said that Jesus committed sins while He was on the earth.
- Thirty percent believe that all religions pray to the same God but use different names.
- Only 9% of born-again teens believe in moral absolutes.
This past Sunday, one of our young adults described to me how the previous night he went to a friend’s apartment. On the sofa was a young man giving free tattoos to “whosoever would come” while another group was surrounding a hookah (think water bong). The scene was surreal, to say the least, and surprising to my young friend … but not particularly shocking. These were Christians, by the way, who the next morning found their way to the church of their choice.
Most reading this are more righteously offended by the scene described than convicted that the American church these kids have grown up in has allowed them to be so calloused that they do not recognize a lifestyle so far removed from godly living. It will take humility to change that mindset.
This past Sunday I preached from John 15 and how “abiding in the vine” demands that we develop a biblical mindset concerning our lifestyle. The little book of 1John:15-17 says,
“Don’t love the world’s ways. Don’t love the world’s goods. Love of the world squeezes out love for the Father. Practically everything that goes on in the world-wanting your own way, wanting everything for yourself, wanting to appear important-has nothing to do with the Father. It just isolates you from him. The world and all its wanting, wanting, wanting is on the way out-but whoever does what God wants is set for eternity.” The Message
You cannot read those words without considering all of the toys and trinkets we live with that rob us of a deeper walk with Jesus. The generation we are raising deserves that we example a more biblical as opposed to hypocritical lifestyle. I want to be done with Christianity that does not change me. I want to know, on a daily basis, the transformation in lifestyle that Romans 12:2 promises to those who take in God’s Word.
How about you?
This week, change, friend. Change your mind, change your direction, and change your heart about what is really important. Remember, where your treasure is, that is where your heart will be also.
Maranatha, the Lord comes!
P.S. Please pray for me and the team as we teach in Kerala, India over the next 2 weeks.
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